Silicone Bra

Have you used one of this?

I just got myself a pair and will be wearing it with a top I bought. The top have got a very deep V at the back and normal bra will not be suitable. I have tried several other alternatives at the La S outlet but don't like the design.

This pair that I bought can be worn with or without the transparent strap provided. Meaning this pair can be worn just like a normal half-cup bra or with the halter neck strap. That is one of the reason I will buy this. Plus its also not expensive only RM49.90.

This is the adhesive side

 This is the outer cup

 

Will try and let you know whether its comfortable.

Renovation

We are going to start renovating our new house.

Hubby is so fed-up with the repair that the developer is suppose to complete and decided to start renovation without the rectification of the defects. The developer seems to be taking ages to rectify since we submitted our list of defects 2 weeks ago. Some houseowner actually complaint that after 2 months and the defects are not rectify! Well, maybe because we are not paying for the defects so the developer and/or their sub-con is taking their own sweet time to rectify. If we give 2 months and paid them to do it, I think they can build us another house!

We will like to start our renovation this month but have not decided which contractor to use. If money is not a concern, we could have just choose any contractor. But money is a concern and will like to sticks to our estimated budget. Nevertheless, I'm very excited about this whole renovation process because I'm going to have my kitchen complete with an ISLAND!!!!!

I have dreamt of such kitchen ever since we bought our current house. But due to space constraint, no island in the current kitchen :( Now space is available and hubby offered to custom made an ISLAND for our kitchen. Will definetly post some photos when the reno is done.

In addition, we will have an attic in the house too. Yes, an ATTIC! The family area in the second floor has got a very high ceiling with windows and after seeing one of the neighbour's house with  a newly built attic... hhhmmmm... hubby just can't resist the idea. He said its going to be his hiding place.. hide from Angel! Angel will have a hard time looking for daddy when playing hide and seek  ;)

I just hope that as we renovate, hubby will not have some more ideas which will cause our reno costs to balloon! Now, whenever he suggested something, I will always ask him the purpose. If he can't answer, the idea will be scrapped! I wanna stick to our other plans - travelling plans so must control our funds.

Discipline

How do you discipline your kids?

My parents used cane to discipline me and my brothers, less on my baby brother. I still remember one day when i was around 5 or 6 years old, I was caned by my father cause i refuse to leave my grandma's house as I was enjoying myself playing with my cousins. My dad have to drag me to the car and when at home drag me out of the car and started to caned me. The caning leave some very noticebale mark, lucky its no longer visible after a few days. And, ever since I'm absolutely scared of my dad.

I read through a lots of reading (especially Western) about disciplining your kids and these professionals advice against caning or any form of beating. I will actually like that idea cause I do not want to hurt my baby like how my parents did.

I tried putting Angel facing the wall and after 2 attempts, she is well aware that it is a form of punishment. She will cry/scream whenever I mentioned 'go face the wall'. I refuse to use cane but still unable to control myself, sometimes I do hit Angel with my pair of hands. Regretting after that :(

She is only 2. Is it too young for us to punish her?

The other day, Angel was playing with the Astro remote control and accidentally press on the 'Guide' button and the blue screen appear. We asked her who did that, she replied "Pa pa". Hubby refuse to let her getaway with this (lying) and insist that she tell us the truth. Angel refuse and keep repeating "pa pa". Hubby carry to aside and Angel started crying very loudly. Hubby in his attempt to control Angel and himself, asked Angel to say sorry. This girl is so stubborn. She pleaded with her daddy but still REFUSE to say sorry!

I gotta say I'm surprise that Hubby did not lose his temper nor hit Angel. Instead, he tried to reason with her. But Angel just refuse to admit and say sorry :( I'm just wondering - if she is so stubborn now at 2, what will she be like when she is older?

The sky is divided. Sun and gloomy cloud.

Seminar @ Shangri-La Kuala Lumpur

I attended a seminar on Wed at Shangri-La Hotel Kuala Lumpur. I have been to this hotel but never thought that it have got so many function rooms. There about 10 other functions at Shangri-la that day.

My seminar is at Sabah Room and here is glimpse of the venue.

Another re-usable bag

 

The essentials provided

 

 

We are well feed that day with breakfast, tea-time and lunch. I dare not take pictures of the breakfast and tea-time as it is serve in the foyer and so many people looking. But I did manage to take some photos of my lunch served behind the seminar hall ie within the room itself.

Our dining table

 Soup of the day - broccoli

 

My lunch platter - some vege, mutton masala and sweet and sour fish.

On diet mah, so did not get any of the rice and lamb.

 

 Varieties of cake

 

My desserts platter and ice-cream.... yum yum

 

A nice relaxing seminar with information on available software to assist in our operation. The organiser is so cunning that they keep the doorgift which is an umbrella until a participant submit their feedback form. In order to make it more interesting, lucky draw session is held before and after lunch.

I'm so lucky that I won the grand prize of the day.............

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A HP Mini!!!

sorry no picture ye, will blog about it later